Saturday, January 3, 2009

Friday, January 2...Friday's Feats

Mom and I decided to go to Dad's morning therapy session today since we are both back to work full time next week. Mom arrived first and Dad was with Barbara, his speech therapist. Barbara told mom that she can't believe how verbal Dad has gotten in the last week or so. She was laughing because Dad told her she should take something for her allergies so she wouldn't have to blow her nose soo much! Typical George Luker, right?!? Physical Therapy had him next, and Kelley had the day off, so Carolyn put Dad on the "bike" for 20 minutes at Level 7. Carolyn was impressed, she said, "you must be a strong man!" She had to belt Dad's right foot onto the pedal; it wouldn't stay on there very well, but other than that, he did great until the last minute or two when his lower back really started to hurt him. So, she moved him to a mat and put a heatpack under him and let him lay down to work his legs. Once the heatpack got too warm, she had him sit up and do reaching exercises with his left arm while balancing himself with his right. As you can tell, Carolyn gave him a really good workout, so by the time he got to Rachelle, his occupational therapist, he was pretty worn out. She told him if he would work just a little bit for her now, she would let him finish with her after lunch. Dad agreed and they went to work on his "catch and release." All of you who have visited with Dad, know what we are talking about. He can now grasp an object with his right hand, but has a hard time letting go, whether it is your hand or a blanket or a cup ... you are in his clutches!! Rachelle isn't sure if it is some time of reflex or if Dad is concentrating too hard on the grip, so she tried rubbing a ballpoint pen over his hand to find the reflex, and then tried distracting Dad another time, and both seemed to work well in lessening dad's grip. In fact, when he was holding Mom's hand, he unconsciously started rubbing the top of her hand over and over again with only his thumb(see video at bottom of blog entry), and that is something he had not done since before the stroke ... it was just a natural move for him, and when we all noticed it, Mom and I started to tear up and Rachelle went crazy (in a good way!). Rachelle decided it was a good time to stop and let Dad rest for a bit before lunch, so we put Dad back in bed and Mom & I ran an errand and had lunch with Carol Humphrey who had stopped by to see Dad. After lunch, Mom went back for Dad and Rachelle's afternoon session, and she was sure glad she did. Rachelle strapped Dad's right arm to some sort of "table skate" and then worked with Dad on trying to push it in toward his belly. Rachelle helped him the first few times get the hang of it, and then she bear-hugged dad to prevent him from using his trunk to push his arm, and slowly but surely dad used his bicep to move that scooter toward his belly! That wasn't all there was to celebrate either ... after witnessing Dad move only his thumb earlier and then be able to release the grip on Mom's hand, Rachelle gave Dad a towel and told him to grab it with his right hand. Dad inched his way toward the towl and grabbed it with his fingers, and then Rachelle said nonchalantly, "okay, that's it, you're done, you can let it go." And, HE DID!! It seems that when Dad isn't so intent or focused on a specific action, he has a better result, so we are adopting Nike's slogan and saying ... "Just do it!" Mom said Rachelle was super pleased and Dad seemed to be pretty proud of himself too! So, keep those get well wishes and prayers and cards coming in his direction; they are working and keep his spirits up. Thanks to Mike & Pat McKenzie too for their visit Thursday night!

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Thursday, January 1st...Welcome 2009!!

Blog update by Cindy. HAPPY NEW YEAR, everyone! I hope everyone had fun ushering in 2009. I know our daughter and son-in-law did! They hosted a big New Year's Eve party for their friends last night, and as of 4 p.m. today, they still had a houseful. Ahhh, to be young again!! George had another good today, and a New Year's surprise outing. My mom traditionally hosts a family dinner on New Year's Day, and yesterday, I was figuring on just making George a plate and taking it down to the Rehab for him. As my mom and I were talking this morning, we thought it would be nice if George could come and eat with us, but I had not made any arrangements for a pass. I took the chance and called the nurse's station and asked if there was anyway I could take him out to lunch. Karen said that she would page Dr. V and see what she said. I called back in 30 minutes, and Susan gave me the good news ... we could break him out of there for up to 3 hours!! Of course, "my big guy" wasn't going to be able to help me this time since they were still entertaining guests, but my brother volunteered to lend me his muscle-power. When David & I arrived at Rehab, George and Jesse Garza were hanging out in the hallway together, most likely plotting the course for their next wheelchair race!! However, George was hungry and eager to get on the road, but the first question he asked was, "Did you bring my dog?!?" I had already dropped Brady off at Mother's before we came to get George, so I was able to say, "yes, he's waiting for you!" David & I transferred George in/out of the car without incident, but it's not easy ... we missed Dave, for sure! Mom fixed a great meal; pork loin, potatoes, sauerkraut & spareribs (a Yankee tradition) and tossed salad, and then I brought black-eyed peas and corn bread, a Texas tradition on New Year's Day! Cheryl & David brought a bottle of champagne and cherry pie for dessert ... George just had a sip and a bite of pie; we didn't want his blood sugar to be high when he got back to the hospital! All in all, it was a very nice start to the new year. We even managed to get a group photo with my camera set on the automatic timer! So far, things are looking good!!

Wednesday, December 31st...New Year's Eve: Let the Countdown Begin!

Blog update by Cindy. Just a few more hours until the new year, and I, for one, am looking forward to 2009. The last six months of 2008 was filled with a cancer scare and two surgeries for me, and just as I was feeling great, George had his stroke. So, let the countdown begin!! George and I had our traditional New Year's Eve date tonight; we usually do dinner and games with friends, but tonight it was just us ... and the nurses at Katy Rehab! My husband told me earlier in the day he was hungry for a steak, so I called Saltgrass and ordered us a steak and shrimp dinner, with all of the fixings, to go!! I got to the hospital around 5:30 p.m. and my New Year's date was anxiously awaiting my arrival. George wasn't kidding when he said he was hungry for a steak; he ate more than half of the 17 oz. T-Bone that I bought for us to share, 3 of the 5 grilled shrimp, a side salad and half of the Romano potatoes! It was a really good dinner; I know I sure miss my "King of the Grill" making me dinner at night. I tried to make the night a little festive by adding some balloons and blowers, and I even brought some plastic champage glasses so George and I could make a New Year's toast. Of course, we toasted to a healthy 2009 and also gave thanks for our wonderful family and large circle of friends that have given us soo much love and support this year, as well as all of the doctors, nurses, therapists and aids/assistants that take such good care of George at Katy Rehab. Oh, and I guess you realize by now that George was not discharged today! The caseworker never heard back from Blue Cross/Blue Shield on their decision, so until she hears otherwise, he's staying!! Also, I want to send out a special thank-you to Van & Jo Gilbert who interrupted their Christmas vacation with family in ENGLAND to call and check on us. The Gilberts, who both have been in the healthcare industry for years, called me bright & early this morning to check George's status at Rehab, answer the insurance questions I had, and give me some tips and advice on some other healthcare options we may be able to utilize in the future. Have a safe trip home you guys!! Also, George had another long-distance "caller" yesterday in the form of a visit ... George's cousin, Donald Ray Meek and his wife, Nadine, drove down from West Point, Texas, and I'm sure he really enjoyed seeing them!

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Tuesday, December 30...No news is good news?!?

Mom had a meeting with Dad's therapists and caseworker this morning at Katy Rehabilitation. They all agreed that Dad has made slow but steady progress and that they were going to submit a request to Blue Cross/Blue Shield today to extend his discharge date to Friday, January 9th. Kelley told Mom she would do whatever she could to relay to the insurance company that Dad really needed the extra time to build on the strength and skill he has acquired so far, but as of 5 p.m., Katy Rehab was still waiting for their decision. Just in case they would not approve the extra time, Linda (the caseworker) had the names of several skilled nursing centers listed under the Blue Cross/Blue Shield plan where Dad might be able to stay for a few additional weeks. The problem is that none of them are in Katy, and the facility that the therapists recommend in Katy, won't accept Blue Cross/Blue Shield. Mom is very frustrated because Dad is covered under Medicare as well, and she just doesn't understand why Medicare won't kick in if Blue Cross/Blue Shield denies further benefits at the Rehab or at a skilled nursing center. Carol Humphrey (Mom's "Christmas Elf" turned "Angel") has been working the phones for her all afternoon trying to find other options as well as price daytime caregivers, because Mom also learned that any help Dad needs while she is at work, will have to be paid for out-of-pocket ... neither insurance covers that need either. We're not so sure paying monthly premiums to two insurance companies is worth it since you still don't receive what you need from them. So, after living this nightmare first hand, we all agree that government really does need to revamp the healthcare system!

On a brighter note, I attended Dad's afternoon therapy session with Rochelle & Laurie(Occupational Therapists). Rochelle was showing me how Dad can now open and close his right hand doing a repetitive motion. That was great to see and it was also so nice to see Dad and his therapists laughing and having a good time in between exercises. I think it is so important that Dad really likes his therapists...they have all been so good to Dad and I know that he appreciates all of their patience and all of the hard work they've devoted towards getting him stronger every day. Thank you so much :)

Before I left this afternoon, Dad's PT Kelley, came in and I practiced transerring Dad (with assistance of course) and Dad did most of the work...I was merely there for support/helping him to balance. He did a very good job standing up from his wheel chair to his walker and then getting into bed. Dad also had another wheel chair race today with Mr. Garza (Dad's buddy and next door neighbor at Katy Rehabilitation) and managed to beat him down the hall! It was really good to see Dad having fun!

Stayed tuned for any breaking news on Dad's discharge!!